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Wedding
Apparel Start shopping as soon as you set your date. Most designer
wedding dresses need to be special ordered. It could take 3 to 6 months for special
order or designer wedding dresses to arrive. Order at least six months prior to
your reception. This will allow time for fittings, alterations, and coordination.
If you decide to have your gown custom made, allow about 6 months since selection
of style, fabric and details along with fittings takes time. Shopping
- To make your day a pleasant and rewarding one, try not to visit too many bridal
shops in the same day. When you are fresh, full of energy and enthusiasm, you
will be able to make sound judgments. On the other hand, if you come to the store
exhausted and unprepared, after trying a few styles you may be confused and find
that all the gowns begin to look the same and you may come home toting one of
the cheap wedding dresses simply because you were tired! Bring along pictures
of wedding gowns you like and be open to discuss your plan and idea with a bridal
consultant. It could happen that the gown you like in a picture doesn't look good
on you. The bridal consultant will study your figure type and personality to help
select the styles that flatter you and suit your budget. Try on all of the dresses
the consultant shows you, even if it may not seem like "your style"
of dress as most wedding dresses look much better, and different, on you than
on the racks. You may want to bring a family member or friend along for a second
opinion . Avoid taking more than one person since too many opinions can conflict
and confuse. Wearing appropriate undergarments and a bit of makeup can also help
to make the wedding dress look and fit better. Take a Polaroid camera along just
in case you cannot decide. Take a picture of yourself wearing each wedding dress
and bring them home to study. Wedding
Decorations Depending on the venue of your wedding ceremony and
reception, your wedding decorations will be influenced. While certain location-specific
decisions, such as table size, table cloths and curtains, chairs and wall decorations
will have limited options, you will certainly have full control over wedding decorations
such as flower arrangements, place-settings, wedding favors, food and beverage,
and other atmospheric decor. For
your wedding decorations, you may wish to hire an interior decorator or flower
arranger to help make your wedding location a beautiful place. If know one offhand,
you can search online or consult with your wedding planner. When thinking about
wedding decorations, you should think about not just the wedding decorations themselve,
but you should keep in mind the overall color scheme of your wedding. What colors
will you, your future spouse, and your wedding party going to be dressed in? What
color table cloths and placesettings will you have? These factors are important
and will lead you to a selection of flowers that will complement banquets and
ceremonies. Wedding
Dresses A high street store off-the-peg dress, bought in the sales,
can cost considerably less, and of course a couture dress will cost considerably
more. Although some brides strike lucky and find the dress of their dreams at
a reduced price, many more overspend the budget in this area. Whenever you set
a budget, always factor in 10 per cent for overspends - but then try and stick
to this outer limit. The bride's family traditionally pays for the dress - and
for the bridesmaids' dresses. Nowadays more bridesmaids pay for their own dresses,
but this needs to be agreed in advance, and means they should have at least some
say in their outfits! The
trend for weddings is for their overall design to become ever more coordinated
and themed. Although it is by no means a requirement, usually the style of the
dress matches the style of the wedding. After all, if you're a minimalist girl
at heart, you're likely to regret going for the pink Cinderella outfit when the
rest of your wedding is stark black and white. Plus you'll probably want the bridesmaids
to wear similar styles of dress. Wedding
Flower Girl Dress Flower girls first began walking down wedding
isles in the Middle Ages. Back then it was grain, not flower petals, that the
girls spread before the bride. But whether they carried seeds or flowers, the
girls symbolized the bride’s own beginnings as well as the new marriage’s promise
of fruitfulness and joy. Today’s
flower girls precede the bride, scattering petals or simply holding a bouquet.
Although this procedure sounds easy enough to adults, however, all must remember
that children are . . . well, children, and they need plenty of rehearsals and
patience. Etiquette stipulates that while flower girls must be included in wedding
rehearsals, they need not be invited to the rehearsal dinner. If they are invited
to the dinner, their parents must also be invited. The parents, however, should
pay for their (and the girls’) transportation to all wedding functions. The
bride provides the flower basket, flower petals (or other items to strew across
the isle), and any hair decorations for the flower girls. Flower girls may walk
arm in arm, tossing petals from a shared basket, or they may each carry their
own basket, walking single-file down the wedding isle. Wedding
Garter Today, the tradition of the wedding garter is tame in comparison
to France of the 14th century. In North America, the bride wears two garters;
one as a keepsake garter and the other for the throw away. Both
garters are worn on the right leg just above the knee. Before
the removal of the garter, the bride first throws her bouquet to the single women.
The groom removes
the throw away garter from the brides leg, sometimes he removes it with his teeth
, but more appropriately nowadays he uses his hands. He does this while the bride
is sat in a chair. After
the garter is removed, he then throws it to the single male guests. The male guest
then takes the garter and places it on the leg of the single female guest who
has caught the bouquet. Those
that catch either item are said to be the next to marry. In some instances, it
is said that they will marry each other. The
keepsake garter is removed later in private during the honeymoon night. Numerous
wedding garter traditions have been obtained over the years that still seem to
become rules of etiquette today. Take a look at a few that are still popular and
some that have long since been forgotten. The
garter tradition originated back to the 14th century. In parts of Europe the guests
of the bride and groom believed having a piece of the bride’s clothing was thought
to bring good luck. They would actually destroy the brides dress by ripping off
pieces of fabric. Obviously, this tradition did not sit well with the bride, so
she began throwing various items to the guests – the garter being one of them.
It became customary for the bride to toss the garter to the men. But this also
caused a great problem for the bride….sometimes the men would get drunk, become
impatient and try to remove the garter ahead of time. Therefore, the custom derived
at having the groom remove and toss the garter to the men. With this change, the
bride began to toss the bridal boutique to the unwed girls who were eligible for
marriage. Wearing
something blue dates back to biblical times when the color blue was considered
to represent purity, faithfulness and fidelity. Back then the bride would wear
a piece of blue clothing or a blue band around the bottom of her dress. The ancient
Roman maidens also wore blue on the borders of their robes to symbolize their
love, fidelity and modesty, while the Christians associated it with the purity
of the Virgin Mary. Wedding
Necklace The cleaning process that is right for each piece of your
jewelry depends on the materials and the type and quality of workmanship that
went into making the piece. Properly cleaned and cared for, your jewelry will
look great for a lifetime of wearing pleasure. There
are many commercial liquid cleaning solutions on the market. This solution is
safe to use in most cases, but if it contains ammonia, it can attack cultured
pearls and many of the materials used in costume jewelry. In addition, any solution
containing bleach can pit gold alloys. Your best bet is to purchase an ammonia
free jewelry cleaner. Most
costume jewelry cleans well with mild, soapy water and a soft brush. When cleaning,
use a few drops of mild detergent mixed with a little warm water. Don't soak glued
pearl or gemstone jewelry or any pieces of jewelry made with rhinestones. Remove
jewelry when you are done cleaning, and dry off with a soft cloth. There
are three important guidelines to follow in caring for your jewelry: separate
it, avoid jewelry contact with perfume, hair spray and makeup, and don't wear
it during a vigorous activity. Most
jewelry comes packaged in soft sacks, boxes, tissue paper, or zip-lock plastic
bags. There is a good reason for this individual packaging: jewelry is supposed
to rest against your body, not other pieces of jewelry. When
something hard, such as a diamond or glass, rubs against something soft, such
as gold, pearls, or plastic, the softer materials come out the losers. That's
why it is a poor idea to toss your rhinestone earrings in the bottom of your jewelry
box right next to your string of cultured pearls or sterling silver bangle. Separating
your jewelry in individual boxes, bags, or the compartments in your jewelry box
will help it to last a lifetime. Put
your makeup, hairspray, and perfume on first and then put your jewelry on. The
chemicals in these products can damage costume jewelry when applied directly onto
them. Finally,
no jewelry holds up well under hard physical activity. Whether you are doing heavy
chores, playing a set of tennis, or taking a dip in a chlorinated pool, your jewelry
isn't strong enough to go with you. Removing all jewelry before beginning physical
activities can help prevent a disappointing damage or loss later. Wedding
Party Favors Wedding favors are keepsakes given to your guests
as a thank you for sharing your special day. When planning the many details associated
with your wedding, the decision to have or not have wedding favors for your guests
is a difficult one. With some thought to this issue, you will avoid giving tacky
wedding favors to your guests. Wedding favors are a good idea simply because they
are a tasteful reminder to your guests that they are both special and well thought
of. Wedding favors are also an attractive addition to the tables, matching your
color scheme, decor, and/or theme, and the right wedding favor will remind your
guests of the wonderful time they had at your wedding. You
can do research on the many different styles of wedding favors online before deciding
on which type to purchase. Remember, different wedding favor websites have different
wedding favor product lines, and the favors they display depend on their suppliers.
Wedding
Photography There are other very important factors to consider
when selecting your photographer. Please envision the following scenario which
is based on many a true story: You’ve
spent months preparing for your perfect wedding. You’ve selected everything, including
your photographer, whose selection of work was outstanding and the photographer’s
personality was also wonderful. You really clicked with him (which is very important!)
and felt very comfortable with your decision of hiring him. You really looked
forward to interacting with this person throughout your special day because you
got along with him so well. A huge weight has been lifted from you because one
of your biggest concerns was being able to find a photographer not only whose
work you loved, but whose personality clicked with yours as well. After all, you
want to be as comfortable with this person as possible since you’ll be dealing
with him throughout your entire wedding day! So,
the big day comes and you’re nervously getting ready. Suddenly, there’s a knock
on your door. ‘Oh, that must be my photographer!’ you exclaim excitedly. With
a smile from ear to ear you rush to the door excited to greet this kind person
with whom you’ve meshed so well during your many conversations over the past several
months. You open the door and greet... a strange looking unshaven man in rumpled
clothing that you’ve never seen before in your life! Sadly,
there are way too many photography companies that run their businesses this way
and believe it or not, completely get away with it. These companies contract out
their jobs to freelance photographers, or sometimes they have many wedding photographers
working for them and just neglect to inform brides of this oh-so-important fact.
What does this mean? It means that the wonderful photographer you spoke to most
likely had no intentions of photographing your wedding. (That is IF he was even
a photographer at all. Sometimes they are just the salesperson for the company!)
But there’s more! It also means that his beautiful work and photography style
that you fell in love with was most likely a compilation of work from the many
different photographers they employ! So
in our above scenario, how many of this unknown photographer’s wedding pictures
did this bride actually see... IF ANY? We can conclude that there’s really no
way of knowing for sure. So what could she have done to prevent this from happening?
The answer: HER HOMEWORK! Don’t be a victim of this kind of photography nightmare!
BE SURE TO ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS WHEN SPEAKING TO POTENTIAL PHOTOGRAPHERS! Wedding
Pictures Chances are you won't take many pictures before the ceremony
- after all, you're a guest (or perhaps a member of the wedding party). So you'll
be plenty busy before the ceremony socializing, and then taking your seat and
waiting for the ceremony to get underway. Let's assume, however, that you have
your camera with you and you want to take some pictures during the ceremony. Okay,
take an aisle seat. But
don't start firing away until you know what's permitted and what's not permitted
in that particular house of worship. Understand, some ministers, priests, and
rabbis don't care a hoot about cameras and flashes. They expect the pro and the
guests to blaze away during the ceremony. Others permit pictures, but not flash.
And some will make you feel the wrath of the Almighty if you so much as touch
your camera! How
to know? Our advice is to watch the pro. If he or she is moving freely about the
church and using a flash on camera, then chances are you can take some flash-pictures
too. If he takes pictures, but doesn't use flash, you can probably do the same.
If other guests start to take pictures as the bride goes down the aisle, and the
presiding cleric doesn't say something at the start of the ceremony, then you
may as well join in. Assuming
it's OK to take pictures, then, our Tip is that you seat yourself along the center
aisle. Obviously, if you were in the middle of a row, most of your pictures will
show the backs of pews and heads, but not much of the bride and groom. Seated
on the aisle, however, you can get a nice tight frame of the couple. Wedding
Rings The wedding ring is the most ancient of all marriage traditions.
Nearly every civilization since the Egyptians has used the wedding ring as a symbol
of the marriage agreement. In Egyptian hieroglyphics, the circle represents eternity,
and the earliest rings were made of braided grass, hay, leather, bone and ivory.
When metals were eventually discovered, the first metal rings were lumpy and awkward.
Today, wedding rings can be anything from an inexpensive, plain band to an intricate
setting studded with gems. No
matter where a person chooses to wear their wedding ring, the marriage bond is
complete once vows are recited. The most common placement for wearing a wedding
ring is on the fourth finger of the left hand. This custom began with the Egyptians,
who believed that a vein on the left hand was directly connected to the heart.
Today, a more practical explanation is that the left hand gets less use - and
will be less likely to get damaged - since most people are right-handed. Despite
longstanding traditions, however, wedding rings are not always worn on the left
hand. For a time, wealthy Elizabethans wore huge, elaborate wedding rings on their
thumbs. In the eighteenth century, Roman Catholics wore them on the right hand.
Even today, many European women still follow this tradition. There
are also many superstitions about wedding rings. For example, it is unlucky for
the bride-to-be to go shopping for a ring on a Friday due to the bad luck associated
with that day. It is equally important that neither the future bride nor groom
wear their rings before the wedding ceremony since that would be presumptuous.
Wedding
Shoes Few brides think about their wedding shoes until after they
have all the wedding dress details in place. As a rule of thumb, wedding shoes
must match the selected gown both in style and color, and must also be comfortable
for walking and dancing in during the wedding reception. You
can do some quick research online by comparing the different wedding shoes provided
by online vendors. Remember, different vendors offer different styles of wedding
shoes, so it is always a good idea to make note of any wedding shoe styles you
like before purchasing anything. Wedding
Tiara Wedding tiaras symbolize hope, glamour, and sophistication...
something every bride wants to experience at least once in her lifetime. Wedding
tiaras can be traced back to ancient Egypt, Greece, and Rome, at which time they
conferred status and honor on the wearer. In
modern times, there has been a resurgence in the use of wedding tiaras. The modern
wedding tiara has moved away from gold and precious stones, which now makes it
affordable for any bride to display grandeur as she walks down the aisle. Wedding
tiara ideas and pictures can be easily found online. If you find any styles of
wedding tiaras you like, make a note of its style before making any purchases.
Wedding
Tuxedo Tuxedo history evolves from England. It came about in the
1890's when the dinner jacket was introduced into the United States and was first
worn in the Tuxedo Country Club in Tuxedo Park, New York. Pierre Lorillard V,
a tobacco magnate, invented the tuxedo as an alternative to the tailcoats worn
with white bow ties. It
is almost impossible to imagine a wedding, high school prom, or any other gala
event without them. Pierre Lorillard's aberration has become an industry standard
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